The Worst Hair on Planet Earth (plus bonus material)

I got my hair totally chopped off last Saturday, and when I say chopped off, I really mean it. It's about 1.5" in length at the longest. In fact, it hasn't been this short since I was about 25 years old. At first I was kind of in shock, even though I asked the guy to do it, but now I love it and am so happy that I am back to my youthful-looking self.

Sorry I don't have a picture yet to share, but I do have this lovely photo circa 1988 of my hair at its worst possible point in history...


AKA "The Enormo-roll Bangs" and bad perm combo

WTF was I thinking? I look like someone straight out of a trailer park working at Winn-Dixie.

And FYI, that was my old horse, Cricket, that I had in junior high and early high school. Too bad the profile view of my hair supercedes anything even remotely handsome about the animal.

On two other topics this evening:

1. I have a new historical obsession... John Wilkes Booth and Lincoln's Assassination. Miguel got this book for me at the library, and I have been literally obsessing over it for the past three days:



Tonight my mom and I went to the National Museum of Women in the Arts to see a new exhibit on aboriginal art, and afterwards, as we were leaving the museum, I realized that we were right in the heart of John Wilkes Booth territory circa 1865 (ie: H and 11th Sts.). I made her wait on a street corner with me while I fished the book out of my bag, found the requisite maps and hunted for old boarding houses that Booth once visited.


My latest crush...

However, the big news is that this weekend (Sunday to be exact), Miguel and I are going on a Smithsonian-sponsored bus tour called "Booth's Escape Route" that tracks Booth's trail after he shot Lincoln (if you click on the link, you will see that we have the privilege of dining with the tour group at "Captain Billy's Crabhouse"... sounds like good eatin'!!). It runs from 8am until 8pm and goes all over the DC area and is guided by a Civil War expert named Ed Bearss. I have little doubt that we will be the only people along under the age of 55, but what the hell... history nerds unite!!!


Our guide, Mr. Ed Bearss, representing the average age of the group tour participant...

And finally... a bit of work humor:

2) I had an interesting moment yesterday when boarding the elevator to head up to my office after fetching my morning coffee from the cafeteria. Upon getting on the lift, I placed the small back heel of my sandal ever so perfectly in the gap between the elevator and the ground floor. When I went to lift my foot, there was no movement, as my sandal was wedged expertly between these two elements. Like a complete dork, I immediately began struggling to lift my foot up, making my foot turn purple as I heaved my weight up against the two small straps of leather.


The site of my personal horror story...

Luckily for me, the elevator was packed with people watching me flail around like a trapped animal, waiting for the elevator door to come slamming closed on my leg and forever documenting me in CNN's "Offbeat News" category as "Woman Loses Leg in Elevator Accident." You know, the girl you all talk about in the mornings as you read the internet at work (instead of working), commenting over your cubicle walls with wonder in your voice, "How does something like that happen? Oh my..."

In the end, some nice man did have the common sense to hit the "Door Open" button, and I was able to extricate my foot from my shoe, and then my shoe heel from the floor-elevator gap. And my shoe wasn't even ruined! Hurray! It was a bit of an awkward ride up to the 6th floor though.
And on that note, I go to bed...

A Euro Sort of Weekend

So it's the end of the weekend, and I'm a few hundred dollars poorer...

That's actually a good thing though because I spent all day yesterday shopping in Takoma Park (DC's liberal hippy haven) with my mom and had a great time. As my velociraptor feet are most difficult to accomodate in standard American women's shoes, I tend to shop for flat, European shoes that are made for walking, and I found the most incredible shoe store in Takoma Park that only carries European brands! I ended up walking out of there with three pairs of shoes, all of which were supremely comfortable, cute, and better yet 1/2 price!! Bargain city...


I bought this pair, except that the leather on mine is a cream color (with the same burgandy soles).

We also ended up finding this amazing game store, where I bought two new games to add to my collection...

The card game"Fluxx," with all kinds of bizarre rule changes throughout playing...



... And "Metro," where you try to beat your opponent in building the French metro rail system...

My mom and I tried this one out, but we were really struggling, as both of us are fairly "spatially" challenged.

I totally love playing games, at least almost as much as I like buying fun European shoes.

Oh, speaking of European, the Euros seem to be dominating the World Cup so far. Miguel and I went to a bar this morning to watch England squeak past Ecuador to make it to the next round. Miguel is now watching the Portugal-Netherlands game, but I'm a bit soccer'ed out at the moment!!

Anyway, it's been a great weekend (including a truly gourmet dinner party Friday night at Marianne and Patrizio's place... thank you, M & P!... which featured filet mignon, cheesy polenta, pear & blue cheese salad, delicious homemade Venezuelan flan, and loads of first-rate champagne and wine... just one small perk when you have two friends in the wine importing business... oh, I feel soooo lucky!).


Bollinger champagne... my favorite... and James Bond's too apparently.

That's it for now... will try to write later this week... so in true Euro form... CIAO!

Groundhog Day

My life:

6:30 am: Wake up, run comb through hair, brush teeth, throw on outfit
6:50: Run to shuttle bus (literally)
7:10: Catch metro train
7:45: Bus to work
8:15 - 5:30: Life in cubicle hell, staring at a computer screen and bathing in florescent light, losing my tan with each passing second, dreaming of independent wealth
5:45 - 7pm: The above commute in reverse
7:30: Work out on the elliptical, shedding the weight I've gained while sitting motionless and soulless all day
8:30pm - Read my latest book, Dorian Gray, while perching on the couch and trying to block out the sound of the Hispanic announcer's annoying voice commentating on the most recent World Cup game
11pm - Bed.

Repeat. Repeat. Repeat.

Don't you envy me?

Rick Wakeman's Grand Piano Tour

Grand indeed!!! Last night was so incredible... in three words: Rick. Wakeman. Rocks.

Start of the night:

Getting psyched for the mini-moog...

Only to discover that the "Grand Piano Tour" means exactly that. No synthesizer. Just a grand piano. Temporary confusion (what, Rick Wakeman without a synth?!?) turns into total amazement when I discover that Rick Wakeman jams out on the Wurlitzer just as well as he does on the Korg or Roland... holy shit, it was a fantastic show!!!! And did you also know that Rick Wakeman is a stand-up comic and is regularly on a BBC comedy show? He performed a bit of his routine between songs... very funny indeed; I do love British humor and a talented raconteur.

The one downer of the night was that no cameras were allowed in the show, which meant I couldn't call out "Play Catherine Parr!" and capture it on film, like my brother asked me to do...

Here's the real version of Catherine Parr...


After the concert, Rick let his fans line up for autographs and photos. About 100 of us waited to meet the keyboard master. About 99 of those in line were 45-year-old men clinging to an old dream. And one was a 32-year-old female strangely obsessed with an aging icon who writes music about the Middle Ages.

Case in point... It was finally my turn...

I started yammering about my childhood love of his Henry the VIII album... (please feel free to take a closer look at RW's face here, which seems to say, "What in the f**k is this girl talking about? Someone save me now...")

And I also told him how much I adored Tomita...

The other ultimate 70s synthesizer guru...

I think he liked me... he was telling me here how he once played with Tomita...

Good thing I didn't piss off that angry/bored bodyguard.

The ultimate photo op...

He's about 6'4"... and you'd think he were Johnny Depp or something, the way I'm looking here.

So... that's about it, my crazy Sunday night at the Birchmere.

Toodles...

1980s Band Nerd

Anyone remember this entry about my fabulous marching band experience?

Well, here is photographic proof that I suffered horribly in junior high...

Circa 1986: Bad hair (what's up with that chunk of bangs?), bad dye job a la "Sun In" from summer camp, and a truly ridiculous tuxedo and bow tie for 7th grade band. Not to mention my right hand looks like a daddy long leg spider minus four legs. Thank god I was temporarily spared the orange polyester that didn't rear its ugly head until high school...

The Chico's Chinese Capri Pants

First of all, apologies for my total and complete slacking on the blog. However, my loving boyfriend does not have a home computer (***!!!***!!!) so I have to depend on jumping on his brother's computer when he's not home... like right now. I'm typing as fast as humanly possible so I finish up this entry before he gets home from the gym (as he likes to sit in front of match.com... errr, I mean his computer, all night when he's around). Of course, I don't think he'd care that I'm doing this, but I'd also feel a bit of a guilty twinge if he were milling about in the living room waiting for me to finish up writing about Chinese pants...

Which does, in fact, bring me to the topic of the day... my Chico's Chinese capri pants. I know, I know... Chico's... it does tend to evoke images of high school English teachers, FUPAs, and matronly women attending daytime book clubs at suburban homes, but every now and then I find something cool in the Chico's funky middle-age clothing collection.

The quinessential Chico's customer...

... AKA "The Artsy Mom"

Anyway, I have a pair of black capri pants with white and black Chinese symbols on them that I bought at Chico's a few years ago with the money I won in my office's "March Madness" NCAA betting pool... approximately $60. (And to think that I chose my teams by flipping a penny... seriously!)


The lucky penny that brought me to Chico's...

So... I was wearing my Chico's Chinese capri pants today at work. Around 11:30, I decided to head to lunch out in the office park courtyard, but I thought it would be smart to run in the bathroom and wash my hands before delving into my food. As I was standing in front of the mirror, staring listlessly at my misbehaving hair, I felt the gaze of a small Chinese woman standing next to me as she read over my pants...


Engrish transration: What in the herr is on youl pants?

(Sidenote: For more on Chinese-English translation, please go here)

Now, I must admit, I didn't have the faintest idea what my pants said so I asked the lady what was on them... and she replied, "Werr, it's velly strlange..." and she proceeded to tell me that it repeats "loss of life" and "hatred" over and over, as well as the occasional use of the word "us."

A quick Google check of Chinese symbols proves the woman correct...


This seemingly innocent symbol adorned on my right knee does indeed mean "hatred."

I can look at this two ways... either it truly reveals how I am feeling at work on a daily basis or it reflects how my co-workers felt when the dumbest sports person in the office won the NCAA betting pool two years ago. I'm opting for the latter...

The Anderson Cooper Affair

Last Wednesday night, my mom and I went to Olsson's books on Wilson Boulevard in Arlington to see Anderson Cooper (CNN journalist extraordinaire) talk about his new book. My mom got there first and staked out a pretty good spot, about 10 yards away from the podium. As her poor little foot is still healing from surgery, I fended off the masses from stomping on her boot-encased ped, as the people started rolling in.

Now mind you, we know who Anderson Cooper is from TV, we read the article about him in Vanity Fair, and we think he's somewhat exotic (what with the premature grey hair and steel blue eyes and all), but we're not big enough fans to buy his $40 book in hard-cover for an autograph (like the majority of the audience). Rather, we simply came to gawk at a celebrity.

There we stood for at least 30 minutes, huddled against the CD racks, attempting to peer around a cumbersome column and a rather chubby gay man in a pink polo shirt who was partially blocking our view, waiting for Anderson to make his appearance. When I looked down, out of sheer boredom, to see what CDs were in my line of sight, my eyes caught on the new Kenny Rogers CD... or rather the fearsome spectacle that is now called Kenny Rogers' face. Holy crap, if you want to see plastic surgery gone bad, check this out:


The before and after shocker... Kenny Rogers and the alien.

It reminded me of that woman who now looks like a cat she's had so much surgery.

Now that is just gross.

Everyone standing around me at Olsson's agreed...

Anyhow, soon after my momentary obsession with Kenny Rogers' uplifted face passed, the audience roared, and Anderson Cooper made his appearance. My mother, ever the tactful one, immediately hollered out, "Oh my goodness, he's tiny!" Despite my momentary embarrassment, I had to agree. The man was positively tiny... and not just short, I mean he was just a very small-boned man, very narrow, and very baby bird-like. I guess TV really does add dimension to people (thank god that was not my career of choice) because I'd always imagined Anderson Cooper to be around 6'2" and rather strapping. Instead, my guess is that he's only 5'8" and 140 lbs. at the absolute most. In fact, it appeared I might be able to snap him in half like a twig. Not that I would ever want to do that, of course, but it seemed as though I could have if I'd really had the desire.


Teeny Anderson with Steve Tyler in drag. Hahaha. Not really.

He only spoke for about 20 minutes -- a good, fairly comical and rather humble speech actually -- before he began signing people's books in a private room at the back of the book shop. At this point, my mother and I decided to run outside and see if we could see him up close through the window. Apparently other people had the same idea, and I kid you not when I tell you that at least 20 people were ogling at poor Anderson through the outside glass window, just like one might watch a chimp at the zoo before he launches his own poop at the crowd.

I quickly sneaked into a spot next to the window... so close to Anderson I could have touched him had it not been for that damn glass!... and snapped a pic of him on my phone. Which, of course, I have no idea how to download onto the computer now...

And on that note, I must go pick up Miguel from a long day of World Cup drinking and festivities.

Work Uniforms

In case you hadn't gathered from my last blog entry, I am a public transportation whore this summer.

Today, as I rode the bus home from work, I looked around me at other passengers on the packed vessel and realized that a) I was the only person reading (still working on the intellectual literary masterpiece entitled, "The Devil Wears Prada"), b) I was the only person not wearing some kind of "work uniform," c) I was the only person who didn't have thick black hair, and d) I was the only person who could speak unaccented English.

For a fleeting moment, I thought I might actually have been teleported to Guatemala City and put on this bus:



Hey, speaking of old work uniforms, I think it's time for another blast from my past... it's the weekly 80s picture update!!!

Anyone remember me mentioning that I used to work at Domino's Pizza? FYI: I was a phone answerer extraordinaire... and no, I did not brown nose my cheesy and lame boss at the time... appropriately named Rob... in order to make the promotion to "pizza maker" like the other hussies who worked there... ah yeah, no thanks, I plodded along at the lowest rung of the company ladder for a solid two years... with only a 25 cent raise in that entire time. I must have been a pretty sucky employee. I am pretty sure I didn't like the job too much or have any wild ambitions about owning my own franchise one day.

So here I am, grudgingly posing for a photo for my camera-loving mother as I was going to work in 1990...


Note the ever present Tretorn sneakers, the pizza flour marking on my navy pegged pants, and the quinessential "annoyed teenager" face... I was way too cool for that lame job.

Wow, and I still feel like that... I guess some things never change.

Public Transportation Hell

First of all, I moved in with Miguel this past weekend. I am positively ecstatic to have all of my belongings in one single closet instead of living out of a suitcase like a gypsy or a traveling salesman. This is a very good thing...

But now... have I mentioned that I am partially retarded?...

One of the first things I did this weekend (much to Miguel's consternation) was lose my brand new condominium ID card. This is the essential document that lets me into the gym and allows me to ride the "Cameron Station metro shuttle," which I need to do every morning at 6:55am in order to get to work. Of course, replacement ID's are only given out from 9am to 5pm Monday through Friday, which means I'm SOL. After retracing every single step I took yesterday evening to find the card, I declared it a total loss and began considering alternative solutions, such as forging a card on the computer, having Miguel write a pleading letter on my behalf, and/or just walking to the metro at an insane hour this morning to get to work on time.

In the end, I opted for sheer and obvious trickery -- which involved me holding up Miguel's ID card to the shuttle driver and hoping he would not notice that it did not belong to me, for a) the photo showed a darker skinned Hispanic male, and b) the name in large black letters distinctly said "Miguel S." To my glee, my dim-witted plan worked, and the mega-observant shuttle driver let me on the bus without the blink of a clearly blind eye.

The shuttle deposited me 15 minutes later at the metro station, where I proceeded to hop aboard a "blue line" train to Rosslyn station. After climbing around 150 steps to the top of the platform (my daily cardio), I then had to wait another 10 minutes for my Metrobus to take me to work. Of course, as soon as I got to work, I remembered that it was my new boss's birthday, and I had totally brainfarted on buying bagels for his morning breakfast celebration (as I had signed up to buy and bring in last Friday), and thus had to purchase a dozen bagels at about three times the going rate in the employee cafeteria. Retarded move number 13, 348 in my life. As the cafeteria only provides small plates or single-serve plastic containers for food items, I had to wait about 10 minutes while a cafeteria worker tried to find me a bag big enough for 12 bagels. I ended up with 3 overstuffed Burger King bags, plus a very full cup of coffee, that I nearly dropped about 10 times on the way to the elevator.

The day itself was fairly uneventful, although my saga of retardness continued at the end of the day, when I got on the wrong bus coming home. I realized it pretty much immediately, when we hooked a left going out of the parking lot instead of a right (which is the way I wanted to go). I awkwardly asked aloud to my dozing bus neighbors if we were in fact heading toward Rosslyn, only to met with pitiful stares and sad shakes of the head. I was, indeed, heading off into uncharted suburban territory.

I immediately realized I needed to exit the bus so after dinging the bell, I was dropped off fairly ungraciously on a pebble-strewn median next to a neighborhood full of McMansions. Cars were whizzing past me at about 70 mph, and I prayed that I wasn't one of those sad "shoulder of the road" victims that get smeared while changing tires or just innocently walking to a strip mall. I prayed fervently that a bus might be coming to pick me up and take me in the other direction, and after about 15 minutes, my wishes came true. The correct Metrobus, driven by a clearly agitated driver, carrying an angry-looking black man and a complete nerd reading a sci-fi fantasy novel (who did not even look up to see me board and was likely unaware the bus had even stopped), pulled over and saved my day.

Thirty minutes of bucolic suburban driving later (and one more chapter down of "The Devil Wears Prada"), I was dropped off in front of my mother's condominium, where I am taking a short break before meeting my friend Greg (from UA, who is here this week) and Miguel for drinks... much needed... at the Old Ebbitt Grill downtown.

ps - Sorry for the lack of interesting graphics, but they take a long time to find and download, and my mom is starting to harangue me to have a drink with her. What, may I ask, is more important? Drinks or graphics? Ahhh, yes... goodbye!

Another mom food foible

Today my mom made me lunch to take to work. As she is home from work this week following foot surgery, I'm living the life of children with "stay at home moms" -- and one of the bennies is that my mom makes my lunch. This morning before work, I asked her to to cook a small pizza in the toaster oven that I could then take to work and have for lunch (nothing like cold pizza!). My mom did so, put it in my lunch sack, and sent me off to work with a small peck on the cheek.

Upon opening my lunch bag today, and then unwrapping the little cooked pizza, I discovered that my mom had actually cooked the cardboard under the pizza in the oven with the pizza. Thus, a charred piece of cardboard had to be removed from the odd smelling pizza, and the uncooked pizza bottom (that remained white dough) stared back at me after I peeled off the cooked-on paper.

As the true daughter of my mother, I shrugged off the cardboard odor and uncooked pizza dough, and bit into the pizza. It was hideous. The cooked cardboard flavor that seeped into the pizza left such a bad aftertaste that I had to run to the cafeteria to buy a drink to mask the bad flavor in my mouth.

However, not wanting to "waste food," I must admit that I actually finished the horrible thing. I think this might be a form of mental illness brought on by years of ignoring food quality. Help?

Expiration Dates? As If!!!

Truth be known, I grew up in a household where expiration dates on food were an irrelevant and useless reference point. Yogurt more than three months expired? Oh please... yogurt is already cultured... what does it matter? It's fine! Eat it! Butter left out all day on the kitchen counter? It will build your immune system! Cottage cheese that expired last week? Oh no... that's the "sell by" date... it's not expired. Just ignore the flavor if it's a bit sour...

My mother is the ultimate "perishable item" naysayer. If it's still in the fridge, or elsewhere in her kitchen, despite the manufacturer's recommended warnings, it's still fair game. To recount just a few short stories...

1. "The Meatloaf" -- My mother has always been in the habit of hanging onto left-overs. As the result of her upbringing by a "depression era baby" (AKA my grandmother, god rest her soul), my mom just can't throw anything away. The end result of this is at least 20 Tupperware containers, containing approximately one spoonful of old casserole each, lining every refrigerator shelf possible. When these leftover items built up to unusable quantities, my mother devised the ultimate disposal remedy (that of course did not involve throwing anything in the garbage)... this remedy was called "meatloaf"...

Take one pound of meat, some left-over corn, a touch of 'cream of onion soup' vegetable casserole, a sprinkling of broccoli spears chopped into bite-size portions, and some stale and likely moldy & dry bread, torn into small bits. Mix together with ketchup. Put in oven. Take out and serve for dinner to smiling and unsuspecting family members...


"I would do anything for love..." -- Oh wait, this is the wrong Meatloaf...

In fact, I recently spoke with one of my closest friends from junior high school, and she recounted in great detail the memory of being invited to my house for dinner on a night when my mother served her notorious meatloaf. So traumatized was poor Vicky that she still remembered the corn kernels and other "mystery items" in the very strange meatloaf given to her that evening...

2. Cheese -- My mom loves moldy cheese...


Ahhh, marbled cheddar... so reminiscent of my youth...

Not Stilton or Blue Cheese, but moldy cheddar (which all of us "normal" people realize should not be colored green). As a kid, my mom would try to camouflage moldy cheese on sandwiches, often cutting away the green and furry parts to leave the "good orange cheese" below. It never fooled me though, as I could taste old cheese a mile away. It greatly irritated me throughout my childhood lunchtimes, as I peeled the bread back to find a hardened chunk of two-month old cheddar lying dormant on a layer of Miracle Whip (while my school friends shrieked in laughter and recoiled in horror). My mom would defend herself with, "well, the French eat moldy cheese all the time," or "it won't hurt you... penicillin is actually made from mold." My mom still eats moldy cheese.

3. Crackers and Soup --- My mom has a penchant for holding onto old boxed goods well past their due dates. Take crackers, for instance --- my mom tried to serve crackers once to a small group of friends (and me) that had to have been sitting at least two years in her cupboard. We immediately spit them out, saying "Oooooo! These taste funny!" And my mother, ever the good sport and faithful 'holder-onto of food' just laughed it off and delved around for a fresher box of something (maybe one year old). She once did the same thing for soup, serving Lipton boxed soup to our neighbor, only to have him holler out in surprise, "Ahhhh! There's something in my soup!" Turns out that the soup had been sitting so long in the cabinet that mealworms had hatched, and they were floating around in the broth... like this...



Again, my mom laughed it off ("oh, it's just protein for you!"), although she did grab the bowl away from him.

4. The Cream Cheese Incident --- Once, in the summer between college years, my mom was out of town, and I invited some of my friends over to illicitly drink beer and go swimming at the golf course lake near our house. As we were pilfering through her fridge looking for snacks later in the evening, one of the guys decided to toast a bagel and slather it with cream cheese. Pulling out the tub of cream cheese, I heard him let out of a cry of terror --- the stuff was so old that green fuzz was nearly climbing out the sides of the plastic container.


Mmmm, cream cheese delight!

"Ohhh, sorry," I responded bashfully, "my mom loses track of her refrigerator items sometimes."

To be honest, I sometimes can't believe I made it through childhood without coming down with something, although I do credit a hearty immune system to my mom's food handling...

OK, so why the long weird story of my mom's perishable food history? I'm simply setting the scene for the real story that occurred this past weekend. You see, sadly, poor Miguel fell victim to this characteristic of my mother on Saturday...

As we were driving home from Baltimore late Saturday night, Miguel was yawning and fading behind the wheel of my mom's car. He was very thirsty and asked if there were any bottles of water that we'd brought with us in the car. Hunting around, my mom and I realized that we'd already drunk the two bottles we brought. However, about five minutes later, my mom pulled a bottle of water out from (this was not a good sign) underneath the driver's seat.

"Here, Miguel!!" she chirped. "I found some water!"


Sitting in the back of her Honda, this photo shows my mom preparing to pass the water to the front of the vehicle for consumption...

I should have known better than to hand the bottle blindly over to poor Miguel. Not knowing how long it might have been in the car, I simply wiped off the mouth of the bottle and passed it to him. I could tell he was hesitant about where the bottle might have been, but not totally familiar with the aforementioned information regarding my mom's food handling/expiration date history, Miguel (without putting his lips to the mouth of the bottle), innocently poured the water into his mouth, unaware of any serious repercussions.

Immediately, I saw his expression change into one of a person who has just drunk anti-freeze, or human urine, or pig's blood. Fearful, I snatched the bottle from his hand and put my nose to the opening. What greeted my olfactory system was something akin to a mildewed bath towel mixed with pond algae and poop. This is when I burst out laughing, knowing that only my mother would pass someone a water that was full of amoebic dyssentery bacteria from sitting in her car for so long.


There's nothing like a fresh glass of old bottled water...

Needless to say, Miguel was unamused and (according to him) threw up in his own mouth three times before we made it home. Luckily, he was better by morning, although he remained annoyed at me for finding his situation so amusing.

And honestly, I hate to say it, but I'm still laughing...

Video Killed The Radio Star

I'm on a roll with terrible high school photos. I have been browsing through my mom's photo albums and have found some photos that are positively classic (and have made me either suck in my breath in horror or burst out laughing). I think I'm going to have to establish a "bad high school photo of the week" post while I'm home this summer.

Although I shared that mega-hot pic of me at 10th grade homecoming on my last blog entry (less than a week ago), I just can resist sharing this next little gem, which was taken with my mom when I was in 9th grade (that would be 1988):


Oh my god, where do I begin with my commentary?

Regarding my mom:

1. The skinny tie and big glasses made Miguel remark that my mom looked just like Trevor Horn, of the 80s MTV music pioneers, "The Buggles"... check out the similarity:


Jesus, Miguel is right. My mother was Trevor Horn in drag!

2. I so love her tapered white pants and blue flats that match the crew neck sweater, appropriately accessorized with the aforementioned 80s fashion centerpiece... the skinny, square-bottomed tie.

As for me:

Sweet Mother Mary... what is going on with my white tapered pants, hideously pegged and tucked into turquoise scrunchy sport socks? I'm wearing my all-time favorite 80s high school gear... the Forenza sweatshirt purchased for me by my grandparents (since my parents remained resolutely anti-brand name despite the blatant consumerism of the 1980s). I also do believe my hair was in a side-pony tail, and I have some pretty big bangs. Finally, please note my mega-cool Tretorns, which did give me at least some street cred in 9th grade. Sadly, my cool factor ended there (I was so gawky, oh so gawky...).

Anyway, I have a lot of fun stories to report about my weekend, but I'll save them for later this week. The highlight of the weekend was going to Baltimore on Saturday to see the horse races at Pimlico with my mom and Miguel... while not funny in theory, there were a number of very amusing occurences that day, which still make me laugh out loud thinking about them... more on that later... must run now.

I'm at my mom's house, and Miguel is watching "ultimate fighting," and I must go tell him he's killing brain cells watching that trash...

Blast from the Past

You never know when you're going to run into some old friend when you live in the same place you grew up. Of course, if you're from a city as big as DC, your chances of seeing some long lost remnant of your past are relatively slim... however, it does happen, and it happened to me yesterday.

I got out of work around 5 pm and decided to go over to Miguel's apartment to work out at his gym (which is far superior to the gym in my mom's apartment building). I got on GW Parkway and was cruising to 395 when I ended up somehow, very bizarrely, in the Pentagon parking lot.


May I make a suggestion? Never end up driving around this warden of roads. They lead straight to hair-pulling frustration and near-death experiences.

After accidentally turning onto a one-way road, nearly colliding head-on with a fat lady in a mini-van, and then redirecting myself the other direction, I found myself mistakenly in the "slug" lane in which drivers can pick up waiting passengers going to various marked locations in order to take advantage of the HOV (high occupancy vehicle) highway lanes, which move much faster than the other lanes on the road. Of course, I was only going about a mile away so I had no interest in picking up a slug rider, and I embarrassingly and weirdly had to drive at 2 mph by all of the people on the curb, picking up no one.


Uhh, sorry, can't pick you up tonight!

By the time I finally made it to Miguel's, I was sweaty, exhausted, and ready to take a sledge hammer to every car in the local area. It was after I parked and started to walk to his building when I realized that his apartment keys were back in my mom's apartment in Arlington. On the verge of screaming aloud, I skulked back to my mom's car, furiously threw open the driver's side door, and plunked back in the driver's seat. The thought of driving anywhere at that point nearly made me nauseous. However, I proceeded to drive the 15 minutes back to Arlington (which I had passed on my way to Miguel's in the first place), found a parallel parking spot after 20 minutes, and then raced up to my mom's 14th floor place to fetch the keys. I was on the verge of suicide at this point.


A nice rendition of my mental state yesterday evening.

But finally... ahhh, finally, I made it back to Miguel's and headed straight to the gym. So here I was, burning off some extreme stress, trying to relax, reading my book, and I looked up to see my 10th grade high school homecoming date lifting weights across the room. I had to triple check to make sure it was him (hoping no one noticed me ogling strangely and crinkling my nose to get a better look), but lo and behold, it was none other than Chris G. He was never my boyfriend, and I never really talked much to him after homecoming, but I was happy that someone had asked me that year, especially since I wasn't much of a looker in high school...

Here we are in 1989...

Big hair, braces, and frosted lipstick = 80s hotness!
Also notice the very awkward body posture... hands in front and hands behind. There would be noooo touching between these two people!

Sorry the picture isn't clearer, but I had to take a digital photo from an old album. I have several other treasures to share in coming days...

Oh, and BTW, I did talk to Chris, and he lives right down the street from Miguel. He looks pretty much the same, just 17 years older and wearing wire-rimmed glasses now with thinner, spikier hair, plus he's married, has two dogs, and works for Deloitte and Touche. We're going out for a beer or coffee sometime in the next month just to catch up.

I suppose if I hadn't gone through hell getting to Miguel's, I never would have seen Chris. And as nice as it was to see a face from my past, wouldn't fate be kinder if it surreptiously led me to millions of dollars or a Porsche Carrera or a plane ticket to Bali... ?? I'll keep dreaming...

My life on the Starship Enterprise

OK, the jig is up... I really am living on the Starship Enterprise this summer. Laura and Kelly figured it out from my last blog entry...

Anyone else notice the similarities between this setting...

My boyfriend's amazingly white and clean living room (with red accents). I take full credit for the home sewn curtains and for strongly encouraging the purchase of the colored pillows and foot rest.

And this setting?...

The white-clean Enterprise "bridge" area with red accents.

Oh, and here's my new boyfriend...

I decided to start fresh this summer. Haha.

But really, it's more like this...

That's Miguel on the left, protecting his sparkling clean kitchen, and that's me on the right, getting ready to attack with my crumb-covered hands, while sprinkling food particles all over the floor and counters.

There is no doubt... it's going to be a great, if not at least an interesting summer!! More on the Star Trek Odd Couple later (plus a new update on the dorks in orientation... I'm still in hell all week long)... my mom is off to NYC tomorrow so I won't have access to a computer, but I'll be around in another day or two!

ps - Please do not let me forget to tell you about the Polish Eagle Scout in orientation class. It's worth a laugh...

Party Weekend (plus my first day at my summer job)

Hello... here I am after my first day of work at my new fellowship at an unnamed government office. No comment on that for the moment. However, I would love to share one bit --- just a short note on a horse-faced girl at my orientation this morning who I immediately loathed after she made some unnecessary comment to me about "being late" even though I was there five full minutes before the orientation started. She was wearing a cheap polyester short-sleeved suit from Kohl's or "Chadwick's of Boston" -- and even worse, the suit was grey, which totally did not enhance her already sallow coloring and limp greasy hair. Okay, I'll admit, I have had three glasses of wine, and I'm feeling a bit sinister at the moment, but this lame girl really rubbed me the wrong way (and I had no choice but to sit next to her throughout the day, as it was my "assigned" seat... noooooooo!) Alphabetical order seriously sucks, especially when your last name starts with "Ba..."... not only are you always at the front of the class, but it seriously seems that only total goobers have last names that start with the letter "A" through "Be". For example, today at my table of seven people, not only was there horse-face, but there was also a guy who blew his nose continuously on napkins, looked at the snot, and then placed the napkin facedown. There was also a guy with a bowl cut who has two ferrets, and a pasty-faced blonde female engineer with the personality of a sheet of white paper...

Moving on to people with personality... I thought I would share with you some photo highlights from my birthday weekend that I spent with Miguel and then with all of my friends here on Saturday night...

Here I am on my b-day last Friday...

At M's apartment getting ready to open my Wakeman tickets.

And then the party at Nichole & Luis's house on Saturday night...

Luis and I celebrate our big days...

Miguel and Luis...

My friend Marcia told Miguel that he looked like he was in a "boy band" that night!

Three of my girlfriends...

Julia (9 months pregnant), Nichole, and Sara O.

Roommates Melissa and Lisa... (both a bit drunk, esp. Lisa!)

Melissa is from Tucson and went to U. of A. and Lisa gives out university grants to study in Yemen! Strange coincidences...

The Gringa and her Latino...

Marcia & Ricardo cut a mean salsa.

Miguel played computer DJ...

And he took his job very seriously...

The fruits of his DJ efforts...

The ladies on the dancefloor (ie: L & N's patio) dancing to Funky Cold Medina.

Getting a little wilder...

Nichole and Amy were going crazy here to 80s tunes.

Meanwhile, I make it a habit to never dance until I've had at least 10 drinks.

Instead I try to entertain people with lame stories about random things... not many laughs here. In fact, Marni looks plain annoyed.

After dancing...

The NYC divas... Sonja & Amy. Tres cool...

Wrapping up the night...

Miguel and Meg took each other on in "Name That Tune." Miguel could name the band faster, but Meg named the song titles quicker. Definitely an even match, although Nichole got so bored that she ended up passing out on the couch, and Luis had to carry her off to bed.

Sonja played game show music host... (at 2 am --- drinking started at 3 pm)

Sonja drums like crazy while Amy head bangs nearby. I think they might have been playing the Scorpions' "Rock You Like a Hurricane."

That's it for now... more later. Must go to bed for another big day of work orientation. Blah...